Definition: your personal optimization system is that which involves stepping back, evaluating your processes, doing work in a way that involves effective record-keeping so you can stay on your path, and access/use your past work effectively to further your future work. Such a system may involve: tracking logs, agenda, goal planning. It is characterized by a culture where personal independence comes with personal responsibility. In this you are your own CEO, secretary, analyst & advisor.
Despite this, the best personal optimization systems cannot disregard our need & indeed the true utility of sharing our burdens & playing different roles for each other.
Some people need a less supportive system than others, as their minds are capable of recalling the totality to such a degree of resolution, at any time, so that it is rather more efficient for them to move forward without continual recording & rechecking.
I refer these 10 mindset tips to those of us who do not currently embody this happy facility, & are in the process of designing their own systems of optimization:
- The design of your personal optimization system depends on your current ability to maintain & comprehend it immediately.
- If load of maintenance >= your core work, you are in trouble.
If load of maintenance = your ability, this is not a worthwhile endeavor : redesign/simplify your system to the more essential or urgent. - It is likely you are an optimist. No one lacking a single ounce of hope would endeavor such a project. In which case, you can hope/do by building up your ability/energy incrementally. Choose one step first, try to see how long it can last, and then add another.
- Take care that your tendency towards perfectionism does not stymie progress in other parts of your life. Instead, conduct this as a process – personal, joyous, where set-backs & mistakes are often more informative than successes, and your own encouragement to yourself as a support is more necessary than the approbation of others.
- If social motivation comes into play, please note the caveat of your posted product as a process to your audience. Your honesty with others on what is inherently a personal process is vital to your honesty with yourself, lest you suffer from the ills of becoming corrupt onto your own path.
- & learn to also disregard the comments of others. In this path you must forge the strength to become your own judge of what works. Gradually shift your social motivation to that of making a presentable record of your own path – for your own reflection. This use of social motivation has the natural benefit of :– clarity
– succinctness
– thoroughness
– honesty
– & most important of all: our never-ending strive towards nobility – to not speak anything to yourself in a way you would be afraid to let known as a sentiment of your character. Because when we focus on the darkness within ourselves – the jealousy, resentment, hatred & superiority, we not only diminish ourselves in the eyes of others, we grow in the very aspects of our being that will ultimately make us an object of our own disgust. - use a pseudonym if it serves your needs. (but not as a foil to allow yourself to be cruel)
- Convictions are landmarks; contradictions are the necessary movements of the steering wheel that keeps the car on the path. Do not expect the path to be straight.
- Whenever you feel little, think of what love you can give to those around you, in small acts of service & attention, that can distract you from the self-absorption that you are unconsciously visiting upon yourself. Self-absorption is an act of feeding upon yourself until even your accrued virtues are consumed.
- Remember our innate conundrum as social creatures, whose worth not only includes that of our ability to help ourselves, but also that of sharing our burdens with others. For we cannot act but see or feel ourselves as a part of others. And we cannot enter into the true affections of others without making ourselves in some way necessary to each other.
I speak this to myself as well as, hopefully, of some utility to you.